Monday, 22 April 2013

Gary James and intimidation.

 Let's cut to the chase...Gary James and Tracy Fernandez would like you to know that Nicole is John Willard! They have been trying for nearly a month now to leak the news and to get members of the survivor page outraged, upset and divided. They went as far as creating a fake profile to release news to the public. They have tried posting it on the survivor page but Facebook spammed the comment. And being 2 such trustworthy individuals I just had to share the news!! After all, Tracy knows all about using fake profiles to enter rafflecopters. She was having a little identity crisis herself not so long ago! So everything they say must be true...mustn't it?

Sadly Gary and his terrier have been going after Nicole for quite some time and quite a few of us know about it. I have tried to ignore his grade school behaviours. But now he has even chased her away from the community because of his harassment of her. But we also know of Gary James weird desire to creep peoples facebook profiles and control them also. Just today he lured people into friending his facebook profile after banning people for months by offering gifts. Seems innocent enough but not to those of us who have been around him forever and have seen how he works.

But back to Nicole. On the 7th of April Gary and Tracy created a Facebook profile

If you can be bothered to have a look at this rather creepy profile you'll notice in pig Latin an accusation about a former iHelp sn child feature member fundraising again for an iPad. Personally I have no issue with this and I am a former iHelp admin myself.  IPads break all the time and are not covered by warranties. And it has nothing to do with iHelp. I cannot tell the future and nor am I interested in knowing who it is.

Then he moves onto Nicole and accuses her of being John Willard. He seems rather fixated on it...almost obsessive. He provides his rather interesting proof. And here i was thinking only the North Koreans were into photo shop!!

But this is how I see it. The only thing Nicol is guilty of, IF she is responsible for the John Willard profile, is gross stupidity. Nothing more, nothing less. This profile, as far as I know did not win any rafflecopters or competitions so no fraudulent activity has occurred. However, whilst we are on the subject of FRAUD, Tracy Fernandez's fake profile DID win a rafflecopter. Now using Gary's logic that was a serious fraudulent event!! the police and arrest that girl. Someone contact the authorities!!!

But seriously...if you are sure a person is trying to defraud your community, just don't let him/her win (we all know he controls who wins anyway so it would be no big thing for him to do!) and if she/he does win, contact the authorities and let them deal with it. This is how a NORMAL human being acts. But this is not how Gary James acts. He likes being a bit of a drama queen.

Since the survivor page on Facebook became a reality in January 2013 we have been faced with his fake profiles constantly trying to make trouble for us.  Gary James is desperate to get the page shut down as Survivors has provided a public forum where the truth will not be deleted.

For example, a couple of weeks ago I announced a banner competition for our page as we don't want to get closed down again for having a copyrighted image as our banner...  (thanks Tracy Fernandez for the heads up ) So, as the day went on, people commented about what they wanted in a banner etc.

Then the disgusting behaviour of Gary James and Tracy Fernandez began. Using 2 fake profiles, Sarah Anderson and an Amanda Kelly. Sarah claimed to be a long time supporter of the page blah blah but we knew she wasn't. The private group info gave it away. There is no COMMUNITY secret page anymore since it was closed down by Facebook. So here is what went on on the:


This was originally posted on the 7th of April (aussie time)...approx 6th April EST USA

Here is the link to the whole conversation minus Amanda's and Sara's. The above is what is missing.

Above you can see a wonderful example of Gary James's intimidation tatics.

He mentions B*****e Special school which is where Fiona Allen works. Fiona Allen is a current survivor member and an ex A4cwsn admin. Notice the comment above by 'Sarah Anderson" ...the one concerning those of us on the survivor page who work with kids, that we should watch out because we could lose it all for belonging to the survivor page.

That is a threat to call up peoples places of employment and cause trouble for them. Gary James has done it before and will not hesitate to do it again.

But there is nothing wrong about belonging to an abuse support page and that is exactly what A4 survivors is. Isn't freedom of speech one of those things upheld in the States! Perhaps Gary James missed that one in Citizenship classes.

Sadly I have no idea who works at the Autism Society of America, San Diego but I can guarantee it is someone who likes our page. I have emailed them anyway. I suggest that you all contact your places of employment and tell them about this lunatic and his little side kick Tracy Fernandez.

So now you may be asking how do I know this is all about Gary James and Tracy Fernadez. How do I know for certain it is them that set up the alters and attacked our page. Firstly Gary James is one of the few people aware that Fiona worked at Belmore. It is not mentioned on her profile at all.

Secondly, the other day I had quite a few people contact me when they saw this is their newsfeed. Gary and Tracy  obviously did not realise that they were posting in Gary James's personal profile and not in his secret group.  Tracy tried to delete her post but it was spotted before it was gone. People were disgusted with his and Tracy's less than professional behaviors and forwarded screenshots to me so I could show everyone how these 2 have been acting.

This post by the SLP was posted on 12thApril (aussie time) and this is from a stalker feed screenshot so the Gary James one was from around the same time.  I should point out the SLP has nothing to do with Gary James behaviors but has only been pointed out to date the screenshot :)

The above post was 5 days after they posted on the survivor page and the 2 fake profiles, Sarah Anderson and Amanda Kelly, were banned from the survivor page.

Gary James is the master of intimidation. Hell he tried it with Market America so everyone else is fair game!! Just in case you want to check out that case I have included the link below :) He even tried the good old intimidation tatic when A4 survivors was very new. He posted that the 26 names of the the members of the survivor page were known and given over to the survivor page.

So there you have it. As far as I am concern Nicole is more than welcome on the survivor page. I am not judge jury and executioner and never will be. If Gary James was a normal business man then neither would he.

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Monday, 18 March 2013

We have a winner!!

Congrats to Kailey Bump Bowser. You have won a gently used iPhone 3gs :) Please message admin for details on how to get it sent to you.

You'll notice that i have yet to display the winner on the  actual raffle-copter. I haven't displayed the winner yet as some people entered just for fun so until I have it confirmed Kailey is still wanting the phone I will leave it open just in case I need to add another winner :) I think once I display the winner that option disappears!!!

Thank you all for entering!

Thursday, 14 March 2013

You may have noticed that A4cwsn Survivors page has disappeared. But don't panic we will continue on this page for now

My question is, why is survivors pulled by facebook when his is allowed to stay up. Does Facebook find it OK for an individual to scam, use facebook to collect funds and act as a non profit when he is not, commit mail fraud, publish personal details, harass individual members by writing up  hate lists etc etc etc. I guess it does!!

This is the kind email FB sent us about 2 seconds before it pulled the page. The link by the way goes nowhere. Feel free to contact Facebook and ask why!!

Your Page "A4cwsn survivors" has been removed for violating our Terms of Use. A Facebook Page is a distinct presence used solely for business or promotional purposes. Among other things, Pages that are hateful, threatening or obscene are not allowed. We also take down Pages that attack an individual or group or that are set up by an unauthorised individual. If your Page was removed for any of the above reasons, it will not be reinstated. Continued misuse of Facebook's features could result in the permanent loss of your account.<br><br>If you need further assistance with this issue, please visit

The Facebook Team

Wednesday, 13 March 2013

Now you see you don't

This is the post that set off the ~ stay or should I go post~ by Gary James on A4cwsn yesterday- 11 March 2013!! Normally I would post a link to that post , but despite saying he would leave it up for 2 whole days, it barely made 1 day!!

For those who missed the comments on the post before he deleted them, here it is! This is what he DID NOT want you to see!


 He is so concerned about it he tries to deflect the whole argument onto 'fraud', 'hacking' and 'steeling' (sic).

The question  that people need to ask themselves is, why does he keep deleting posts? Why does he not want people to know that he LIED about traveling  "across the pond' to the UK???

Tuesday, 12 March 2013

The elephant in the room.

Watching today's train wreck on A4cwsn today There was one question that I kept asking myself. Why can these special needs moms and dads not see the frighteningly obvious! Why can they not see the stinking great big elephant in the room?

We have proved beyond a doubt that Gary James is not beyond lying! When he claimed he was in the UK he wasn't! We have the proof in the form of a USPS signed and then refused by Gary James on the 4th of March, exactly when he was meant to be in the UK checking out property and finding the perfect curry to eat!( please read  He played his community like a bunch of fools. But don't take our word for it just in case we manipulated the details. Here is the tracking# which is on the slip he had to sign (see on the link provided) Go to and check it out for yourselves

We have proved beyond  a shade of doubt exactly what he thinks of special needs moms once they have served their purpose!

We have proved that he will lie about almost anything, anytime. here he is on twitter claiming A4cwsn is a nonprofit:

Then he claims he never made that claim:

We have proved that he takes information from the iPad application and has no qualms about publishing details that are meant to be confidential:

But he hasn't done it just once. he has done it numerous times:

We have provided proof concerning intimidation: 

We have proved that he has no problems with using an image without parental permission:
and again here in a photo he stole from a locked down facebook page. Gee I wonder how he got that!!! Ps th ekids are smiling and joking around in the photo. What normal parent doesn't allow their kids to do goofy stuff like that!!!:

We have proved that Gary james couldn't give a toss about Facebooks TOS. He regularly uses A4cwsn member  facebook pages to stalk and to peep into private groups/conversations with their permission. beulah Wuelner actually seemed quite proud that she allowed Gary to use her's:


We have proved that his claims that policemen stripped his kids for signs of abuse  are illegal yet he seems not to be interested in taking the troopers to court...

We have added up the donations etc including donated ipads and something is seriously WRONG!!!

We caught him out lying about who paid for all the ipads etc...apparently according to him it was him, his wife 40% and his business60%!!

He has threatened educators and special needs parents privately and does it publicly also making implications that would  there be  a huge risk seeking the truth concerning A4cwsn!

He has implied quite a few times that he has compromised computers...this is where a lot of the hacking claims come from.

We proved that VSP was de-registered a day after he claimed it was his non profit. Only then did he admit that he wasn't going ahead with VSP. I often wonder if, it had not been blogged about, how long would he have strung the A4cwsn 'community' along??

 We have proved that the threatening letters he claims he was sent in january do not exist. For heavens sake, he can't even remember them!!!

We have proved that he changes the diagnoses of his children to what is more suitable at the time. Sometimes it is 2 on the spectrum, occasionally one withASD adn  epilepsy etc. you get the idea! Ask yourself this...have you ever forgotten what your special needs child's diagnosis is??

He refuses to answer how much in cash donations, direct paypal donations etc he has managed to collect.

He constantly lies about his past. He never was a writer for the rolling stone magazine...nor was he going to be a big olympic star!!

He constantly creates drama on his page!!
Even the a Miami court judge called him a liar  and he admitted to lying! Once a liar always a liar!
(And yes...he finally agreed that the miami Gary James was him!)

Feel free to check out who has been a very naughty boy :(
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He un-publishes the page without warning leaving A4cwsn members concerned and worried. Occasionally he disappears for days without warning and does not tell anyone where he is. In 2011 people were so concerned they were calling his cell phone!!

He constantly claims he will be leaving A4cwsn which is usually followed by cries of "please don't leave...where will we get an iPad from!!!" I will admit when i found this screenshot I had to look twice as it seemed so familiar!! But it is from January 2012.

So I ask myself again, armed with all the knowledge that is out there today, why do people insist on not seeing him for what he truly is??

I see educators, special needs parents, family members all posting how much they love him. Admittedly some admit they are fairly new to the whole A4cwsn scene!!
But is the promise of an iPad so great that they are willing to overlook his background.
I can understand the people who defended him in 2011...nobody had had the guts to get out there and write about who he is. Now the evidence is quite clear. 
There is an Attorney general investigation which at first he tried to say was another of the haters lies.
there are blogs out there all pointing you to evidence!
So why are we ney sayers, sore losers and evil doers? Most of us never asked Gary for anything. I personally only donated money and gave my time...others on the survivor page were admins who spent a lot of their own money and time.
These people who turn up at times like this and when ipads are on offer, very rarely post or even hang out on the page yet are happy to vouch for his goodness and honesty!! Really people! Do these people even know that once upon a time, before they even knew of Gary James's existence, that these women were praised by Gary for helping to created A4cwsn into what it was as a community!

Don't you think that the admins know something about him that you do not know. Ever wonder why the admins seems to be dropping like flies from A4cwsn??
Do you ever stop to think why Gary keeps blocking people and deleting questions if he has nothing to hide?

Now can you see the bloody great big elephant in the room??

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Sunday, 10 March 2013

Quiet. Master manipulator at work

We have all see in the past couple of weeks how Gary James is quite manipulative. Just yesterday it was confirmed that the whole time he was meant to be holidaying in the UK, house hunting and such, he was actually in Connecticut, watching his page and G-d alone knows what else, from the comfort of his home office.
So one is left to ponder how many lies has he actually  created. Did big brother Brian really visit his home, did the Connecticut version of CPS really visit his home, did the police officers he named actually strip his children! Was his letter box run over and then did someone place threatening letters in it.
A man who lies about traveling overseas is more than capable of lying about everything else!

His biggest manipulation of late had to be the so called email offering $25,000 by one Francine Oliver. I received an email the day before from 'Francine' and at the time actually thought it was Gary as I had seen the comment on the A is 4 anon blog by 'Francine'. So I refused to touch it. But surprise surprise guess who posts about it the next day and proceeds to blame the Survivor community for the said email. Gee gosh never saw that one coming!!

 He produced a vimeo video explaining why Bea is the sender of the emails. If she is or isn't doesn't concern me. We only have his word that it was an email sent by Bea Hall. But this is not what concerns me.
The first problem I have is that he releases Bea's address information, that should have been confidential, to the world. He has since made the  vimeo movie private which happened after it was pointed out that it was a violation of the terms and agreements of her signing up for an iPad with A4cwsn.

The biggest problem is that the whole Vimeo video was a BIG set up. Every image on that computer was staged.
You'll notice how easily the ex A4cwsn members saw what looked like an IM at the bottom of the screen talking about getting a BJ. So easy it was posted on the survivor page.
 He knew we would notice it because we all know his very dodgy background.

Most of us have seen or heard about the famous home movie that he sent to an ex A4cwsn member in 2011. It was a SHORT movie thank fully but not one anyone would forget in a hurry!!

So naturally we mentioned it on survivor as he hoped it would be. His explanation on his page when someone asked him. It wasn't an IM but a twitter he received supposedly from Bea.

Now I don't agree with the twitter. It serves no purpose at all. But again Gary james just loves a bit of drama and loves to manipulate even more. He wanted us to see the letters BJ.  The copy of the original twitter  the letters BJ are not high lighted yet on his computer they are.
What sort of businessman/charity/non-profit invites that sort of drama onto his facebook page week after week?
A normal businessman would have sent an email back to 'Francine' and if he thought she was a fake politely told her so and proceeded to contact the police. But no! Not Gary James. He gets off on drama created by A4cwsn. There has been drama on the page since day 1. First it was Joan, now it is Francine.

So now onto Joan...poor Joan who has NEVER stepped forward to reveal her true identity!
she first rears her controversial head on the 10th of June 2011 by simply stating she believes A4cwsn is a big paid advertising site. Big deal but not to Gary James.

This is his response!!
He just cannot let the drama go. I doubt Joan exists actually. I wonder now if she is a creation of his own need for th edramatic!! I think he creates drama because that is what he lives for. A normal businessman would simply walk away from another persons opinion posted as a comment on an article or simply reply to it on the blog or the article. I have yet to see any other individual on Facebook act quite like Gary James.

Back in 2011 his dramas were simple, but bythe end of  December 2011 they had evolved to a mind boggling hate list of women who had walked away from A4cwsn after being blocked for asking for transperancy, asking a simple question or asking him to back off and clam down after attacking individuals. Posting a list such as that is the best example of drama I can show you! What other sort of situation can such a post create.

Sunsuper, which should have been a positive thing for the A4cwsn community, was created into a drama as well with him calling it a scam. 

Forget searching for all this information on the A4cwsn pages. Most of it has been deleted or hidden from the timeline. Find old cached links and have a look around. I am sure you will see a pattern emerge.
 Oh...and did I mention the terminal cancer he had back in 2011!!

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Saturday, 9 March 2013

He lied! How unusual!

Please take note of the dates. At first Mr Gary James refused to  sign for the letter. But USPS made him sign for it in the end. Please take note of the TIME!! This is why there are no photos of Merry old England...he was in Merry old Connecticut the whole time......
A big thanks goes out to  Lisa Neely who sent of the letter unaware he was heading off to England. This is what she had to say on survivors:
"I am the sender of the letter. It was a certified letter revoking my permission to use any of my personal information for any purpose and also demanding that he remove my personal information from any and all databases he has. My husband sent him an email with the same letter attached, which he received on Thurs. the 28th. The day before this letter was sent. Even if you decline to accept the letter, which looks to be the case, he is required to sign showing delivery... which he did on March 4th. I have to go to the PO on Monday for a print out and full documentation.... I didn't know if he was going to the UK or what, when I typed up this letter and sent it. Kind of weird how it all played out!"

I am adding the St Judes check for signature comparison. Same scribble. Thanks Gary James for providing the image of your check when you made your 'donation' to St Judes.

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